I’m a sociopath – here’s my only rule in the bedroom

A 29-year-old woman is helping women be more detached when it comes to dating after sharing with the world that she has antisocial personality disorder.

Kanika Batra was diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). He is colloquially known as a sociopath. The Brisbane woman was told she had the condition aged 21.

Common traits include disregard for others, manipulation, and guiltlessness.

“I was getting a lot of migraines and I tried to end my life because none of the doctors were taking me seriously when I told them how bad the pain was,” Ms Bathra told news.com.au.

“I ended up in the hospital. I have been asleep for 15 hours. When I woke up, I was given the choice of going to the psychiatric ward or seeing a psychiatrist as an outpatient.

A 29-year-old woman is helping women be more detached when it comes to dating after sharing with the world that she has antisocial personality disorder. WireImage

She chose the second option. The former Miss Universe Australia contestant saw a psychiatrist for 18 months.

He concluded that she had ASPD and major depressive disorder. She had behavioral disorders as a child. The behaviors she engaged in, such as criminals and dumping people, also ticked the boxes. She said she fit a lot of the criteria.

She described it as an “experience”. She said he helped her with some of her risky behaviors. This included going bankrupt after going on a trip she couldn’t afford. Another example was flying overseas to see someone he had never met before.

The model said after reading more about it, it’s hard to see how the forensic psychiatrist would come to any other conclusion.

The former Miss Universe Australia contestant saw a psychiatrist for 18 months. WireImage

She decided to jump online and share her experience.

“Not only is the disorder itself rare. It is even rarer when it is a woman, – she said.

“If a woman exhibits any of these characteristics, she is automatically assumed to have borderline personality disorder.”

She has no mood swings and said her emotions wear off quickly, often within an hour. She feels joy and excitement, but emotions like anger are stronger. Ms Batra said there is “not much under the surface”, but this allows her to be a chameleon and adapt to different environments.

There are downsides. She said she is often not believed because of her diagnosis. Psychiatrists often refuse to treat people with ASPD because of their tendency to lie. She has had people not believe her when terrible things have been done to her. She has been accused of lying to gain sympathy because of her diagnosis.

She has no mood swings and said her emotions wear off quickly, often within an hour. WireImage

That’s why she’s been so vocal about what she’s been through. She is asked endless questions about whether she experiences emotions and whether she feels love. People often ask her for dating advice. So she’s now writing a book to keep it all in one place.

“I’ve gotten so many emails and messages asking me what a sociopath would do in these scenarios,” she said.

“How not to hook up so quickly, how not to take advantage of their sensitivity, and how to avoid abuse tactics like gaslighting and snubbing that have taken place in the modern dating world.”

She says women often bond with men quickly. She said that this is not necessary so early. It often leads to their injury in the process. Ms Batra said she is teaching women to “come off as a sociopath”. She said she doesn’t want women to get emotionally attached until men have shown they respect their time and commitment.

“Sociopaths — men — tend to gravitate toward particular women who are vulnerable and exhibit some trauma related to things they can take advantage of,” she said.

“So I also share the negatives of how sociopaths date and how it’s completely transactional.”

Ms. Batra describes her dating life as “serial monogamy.”

“But when I do date, I usually date three to four people at a time,” she said.

However, she will not sleep with them. Ms Batra, who is bisexual, said there are many risks involved in sex, such as emotional attachment, pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections.

“I personally don’t commit to it until I’m in a committed relationship and feel comfortable enough to be in that position.”


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